What do I wish I’d known before I planned my big Indian wedding? That it all flies by so quickly! A three-day affair seems like a marathon, and it is, but you’re having so much fun that time seemed to move more quickly. My advice is to take a step back, allot an hour or two to yourself each day for self-reflection or quiet relaxation with your loved ones, and to live in the moment. You have a photographer to take pictures, a videographer or friends to take videos, and a wedding planner to make sure everything goes off without a hitch. Let them do their jobs, so you can do yours — getting married!